You Think Your Spouse Might Be Cheating,Here’s How To Find Out

December 17, 2009 by Doug Timlin  
Filed under Lifestyle

If you have ever thought that there’s a chance that your spouse is cheating on you, there’s a quick and easy way for you to find out for sure.

The nice thing about this method is that you can do it all from your own home without anyone knowing what you are doing. I get emails from people asking about hiring a private investigator to look into whether their spouse is cheating, however that is such a drastic step that isn’t necessary. This quick and easy “detective’s trick” is the first thing you should do if you have some thoughts that your partner might be acting unfaithfully.

Ok – let’s get to it.

Step Number One – Is Your Spouse Cheating

The first thing you will need to do is find a time where you can look at your spouse’s cell phone for about 15-20 minutes. This isn’t hard to do – you just have to pick a time where you are confident you won’t get “caught” while you are looking at the phone.

You are going to look at their call history that is stored on their phone. Find the incoming and outgoing call lists and write down every phone number that you see on a piece of paper.

If you see numbers that you recognize than you don’t have to write them down, but do make sure to jot down any phone number that doesn’t ring a bell.

When you are all finished, put the phone back and move on to the next step.

Step Number Two – Is Your Spouse Cheating?

At this point you will have a list of all the phone numbers that your spouse has either called or been called by. It’s time to find out exactly who owns each of the phone numbers that are on your list.

You might be surprised to know how much you can find about someone with just their phone number. You can get someone’s full name, address, location details and ever background information when all that you have is their phone number.

How is this possible? There are companies out there that specialize in building huge databases that have information all on phone numbers. These companies will purchase access to all phone records (this includes unlisted and cell phone numbers) so that they can put together these databases. You can then run a search on any phone number you want to “investigate”.

We included a link right at the bottom of this article where you can try a free sample search to see how this works.

As you might have already guessed, these companies will charge a small fee for this service. The nice thing is that it isn’t expensive and you can even find certain companies that will charge a flat fee for unlimited searches. This is your best bet so that you aren’t paying for each individual search you run.

This service is known as a “reverse phone search”.

Go through your list of phone numbers and run a search for each one. Write down the information you find out about each one on your sheet of paper.

The Third Step – Could Your Spouse Be Cheating?

Now not only do you have a list of the phone numbers your spouse has called or been called by, but you have full details on who owns each and every one of these phone numbers!

By figuring out who your spouse has been in communications with, it’s easy to spot if there is anything “fishy” going on. You have this exact information in front of you – it’s now time to look at what you see on your list.

Obviously pay attention to the names that show up and the different calling patterns that you see. In this case, anything suspicious will definitely jump off the page at you.

What I love about this technique is that not only is it quick and easy, but you can do it without anyone knowing you are running a little “investigation”. If you have any suspicions that your spouse might be cheating, you owe it to yourself to find out and this method will help you get the answers you need. All the best!

Click Here to try a free sample reverse phone search. A reverse cell phone search allows you to get full details on who owns any phone number.

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